Trauma rewires alarms. With practice and support, the nervous system can learn safety again.

1) What is PTSD?

PTSD can follow any event that overwhelms your ability to cope: accidents, war, assault, abuse, medical trauma, disasters, or repeated exposure through frontline work. It is the nervous system’s attempt to protect you by staying on high alert, but it comes at a cost.

Think of PTSD not as a disorder but as an adaptation that now needs recalibrating.

2) Symptoms & cPTSD

Symptoms often cluster in four groups. Many people move between them daily:

Intrusions

Flashbacks, nightmares, intrusive images or sounds. These feel as if the trauma is happening again.

Avoidance

Dodging places, conversations, or even emotions that might bring the trauma to mind. Relief in the short term, but maintains the cycle long term.

Negative beliefs & mood

Persistent guilt, shame, “I’m broken” thoughts, disconnection from others, lack of joy.

Hyper-arousal

Hypervigilance, jumpiness, poor sleep, anger bursts, difficulty concentrating.

Complex PTSD (cPTSD)

Arises from long-lasting or repeated trauma (e.g., childhood abuse, coercive control, captivity). Adds difficulties with self-worth, relationships, and emotional regulation.

3) Biology — the science of “stuck alarms”

Neuroplasticity means these circuits can re-learn safety with therapy, tools, and time.

4) Window of Tolerance

Quiet room with daylight window — visual anchor for the window of tolerance
Above the window = panic/anger. Below = numb/shutdown. Middle zone = calm engagement.

The “window” is the emotional bandwidth where you can think, feel, and connect. PTSD shrinks this window. Tools aim to widen it again.

Window of Tolerance Tracker (PDF)

5) Grounding

Grounding breaks the spell of trauma-time and anchors you in now-time.

5-4-3-2-1 senses

Notice 5 things you see, 4 touch, 3 hear, 2 smell, 1 taste. Name them out loud.

Breath

In 4, out 6. Say: “Safe enough, here, now.”

Safe-place visual

Picture a calm space in detail. Pair with breathing.

Orientation

State: “Today is [date]. I’m in [location]. I am safe enough now.”

Download: Grounding Toolkit (PDF)

6) Flashbacks & Nightmares

Flashbacks are trauma memories replaying as if live. Nightmares disturb rest but can be reshaped.

Tools: Nightmare Log, Emergency 3-Minute Reset.

7) Trauma Memory

Trauma memory is stored differently: fragments, body sensations, emotions without time-stamp. This is why fireworks can trigger a war veteran or why a smell can transport someone back years.

Therapies like EMDR and trauma-focused CBT help “re-file” these memories into the past.

8) Treatments & Recovery

9) Veterans & Emergency Responders

Military, police, fire, and ambulance staff face repeated trauma and moral injury. Confidential support is available:

Carry the Support Quick Card (PDF).

10) Printables

11) Support & Services

Important Note

The information on this page is for general understanding and support. It is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or legal advice. If you feel unable to keep yourself safe or someone else is at risk, call 999 (UK) immediately. If you’re outside the UK, contact your local emergency number.

For non-emergency concerns, consider speaking with a qualified health professional or one of the support services listed on our site.

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